Posted by
Lauren Skippers on Thursday, September 20, 2007 11:40:38 PM
Let's talk about black people for a moment. Yes, BLACK people. Nobody
calls me German-American, I'm not calling anyone
African-American--unless they are actually FROM Africa. And probably
not even then. Why are blacks so offended when you call them "black?" I
knew a guy in high school who was from South Africa. He was white. So
was he African-American? What about black people from England? They're
not African-American...are they African-British? Come on, that's
ridiculous. Just call yourself black. I'm white, you're black. Get over
it.
I think it's interesting. Black people fought for years and
years against segregation, to be allowed to attend school wtih white
people and ride buses with them and live in neighborhoods and towns
among them. That's great; I think the Civil Rights movement was a great
thing. I firmly believe that everyone is human and should be treated as
so. You should be allowed to do the same things and go the same places
as everyone else, regardless of your SKIN color (or gender, or
religion, or whatever).
You would think after all that hard
work, black people would embrace desegregation. They would appreciate
being able to do the things they want to do, wherever and whenever and
with whomever they choose to. Yet in the past 10, 20, even 30
years...black people have started segregating themselves all over
again. There's all-black colleges. All-black neighborhoods. Black-only
scholarships. Black Entertainment Television.
To be fair, the
whole "black neighborhood" and "white neighborhood" idea isn't only
because blacks don't want to live among whites; it's also because
whites don't particularly want to live among blacks. It's true, no
matter how racist it sounds; blacks have instilled a sort of fear over
the years in white people. And why is this? Statistics show that black
neighborhoods are generally more high-crime and low-income areas. Of
course, there are many white neighborhoods and areas like that. But as
far as percentages, a larger percentage of black neighborhoods are
higher crime and lower income than white neighborhoods among themselves.
Most
black people don't want to speak, dress, or think "too white." (Recent case in point: Jesse Jackson accusing Obama of being such.) They
want to live, learn, and reproduce (for lack of a better word) amongst
themselves. If a black guy dates or marries a white girl, all the black
girls complain. "Couldn't find a black girl good enough for you?"
Why
is this? Why do most blacks want to be SO separate from
whites--especially after fighting for the exact opposite for so many
years? Why don't most blacks want to speak articulately or dress classy
for fear of being seen by their peers as "too white?" Why that
mentality? I have a feeling it will be a long time before we can get
that answer, let alone see whites and blacks truly living "in harmony"
among one another. And that's just too bad.
***Before anyone
jumps on my back--I KNOW there are distinguished black people out there. There
are a lot of black people who choose to be educated, hold steady jobs,
get married before they have children, raise them with morals, choose
the high road, speak articulately, and all that. Unfortunately, that is
not the majority of black people. Call me racist or be offended if you
must--but open your eyes and realize the truth.
And I leave you with my favorite quote from Bill Cosby:
"Ladies
and gentlemen, the lower economic people are not holding up their end
in this deal. These people are not parenting. They are buying things
for kids – $500 sneakers for what? And won't spend $200 for 'Hooked on
Phonics.'
... They're standing on the corner and they can't speak English. I
can't even talk the way these people talk: 'Why you ain't,' 'Where you
is' ... And I blamed the kid until I heard the mother talk. And then I
heard the father talk. ... Everybody knows it's important to speak
English except these knuckleheads. ... You can't be a doctor with that
kind of crap coming out of your mouth! ...
These are not political criminals. These are people going around
stealing Coca-Cola. People getting shot in the back of the head over a
piece of pound cake and then we run out and we are outraged, [saying]
'The cops shouldn't have shot him.' What the hell was he doing with the
pound cake in his hand?"